7 Tips For Love Spells That Work
So you want to cast a powerful love spell that works? Here are some tips.
1) DO approach any kind of love spell with a clear goal in mind. Know exactly what you are looking for in a romantic partner. For example, are you looking for your love spell to bring you a short term fling, a bit of harmless fun, a holiday romance? Or are you looking to find a Soulmate to share the rest of your life with and marry in a big white wedding?
Whatever your own particular desires and ambitions, be very clear about them, own them unashamedly. It is important to approach any spell with a clear direction and motivation, but when you are casting a love spell this can be even more important. You don’t want to inadvertently hurt someone. If the universe sends you a White Knight or a Fairytale Princess instead of a dashing Lover for the Night, you may only have yourself and your unclear motivations to blame. And vice versa. Take care to “harm none” as this is in the Witches Rede. Tread carefully over the hearts of others.
2) DO make use of any particular symbols, paths, or objects which have special meanings for you as you cast a love spell. A love spell that works and is highly effective can be supercharged by channeling your emotional energy – love and romance are emotional subjects after all.
For instance, if you are especially drawn to a certain symbol or deity or archetype (Venus, Gaia, Athena, Angels etc) then now is the time to incorporate these into your love spell.
As these have special meaning to you they will be highly effective tools to focus your mind to set about manifesting your desires as you cast your romantic spell. In the same way, physical objects, any kind of mementoes that have meaning to you, are often very useful for cementing magical powers in a love spell. You might have a locket given to you by your grandparents who had a long and happy marriage – this might be a symbol of true and enduring love. You might have an old valentine that sets your heart aflutter even though the sender is long since out of your life, but the memories of romance remain. It is all about your mental association with the object or symbol or deity – if these associations are romantic and loving and positive then these can only be a boon to your love spell.
3) DO keep an open and receptive mind when you cast a love spell. Love spells that work are often helped by the fact that the witch or wizard carrying out the love spell is receptive to the universes answer. They are open minded enough to see what they are being told, ie they do not reject potential suitors out of hand because they do not love them at first sight, or they think that they would have nothing in common with such a person. Sometimes the most unlikely matches are the most successful, opposites do often attract, and occasionally a lover has been there all the time, right under our noses, masquerading as a friend or acquaintance or even someone we didn’t like very much at first.
When you cast a love spell, keep your eyes and ears open for signs, and be prepared to suspend judgement and give others the benefit of the doubt.
4) DON’T be afraid to personalise your love spell. Love spells that work are often highly personal to the spell caster, in fact the more effective the spell the more personal it usually is!
Of course it is fine to cast a spell that you have seen online (such as Aphrodites Garland Spell, for instance) But if you can see ways in which you can slightly alter the wording or the ritual of the love spell to make it a better fit for yourself, go for it! Highly successful and fast acting love spells are made like this, by adapting, personalising, and going with the flow.
5) DO love and appreciate yourself. When you cast a love spell it is very important that you like and admire yourself and consider yourself to be an excellent catch. You have to believe in yourself first and foremost. Remember that all spells, especially love spells, are guided and powered up by your willpower, your imagination, and your emotional energy. All of these three things work in tandem to create powerful spells that work. Your will needs to be as unshakeable as possible – you need to know inside that you are capable and worthy of attracting the calibre of person you would like to attract. You need to be able to visualise yourself having a happy relationship with this kind of mate. And finally you need to have the emotional confidence to show this through your personality – at least for the duration of the spell. Look after yourself, take care of yourself, be proud of your achievements and this will show in the success of your love spell.
Which brings me on…
6) DO present your best side to the world. Now I’m not suggesting that you change yourself in any way, there is a lid for every pot after all. If you are a Geek or a Cyber Goth or something else entirely, know that you do not have to change one jot of your core essential being to attract the perfect partner. But, and this is the big but, you CAN still present your best self to the world. Develop the kind of Charisma that witches and wizards are known for, embrace your quirks; but do sell yourself to the world in the best possible light. You are not, for instance, a shy imaginative kid who hides in their room all day, you are an enigmatic genius writing their first novel – get the idea!? A witch or wizard knows their self worth and this reflects in their state of mind, helping them to cast love spells that work!
Of course, if you do have any real problems that are holding you back, serious personality flaws, addictions etc. then it’s true you might be best served casting a spell to sort these things out first. But mostly, the average person just needs a little “set dressing” to steer them on their way to romantic awesomeness. And if you think you are not awesome right now and never will be; firstly, everyone has something great about them if they search hard enough, and secondly, fake it until you make it!
7) DO sit down RIGHT NOW and address the previous points so that you can create a love spell that works today! Get a piece of paper, write headings:
***WHAT am I looking for? WHO do I want? (Write the qualities you are looking for in an ideal partner)
***Are there any symbols, ideas, physical mementoes I can use to create a love spell that is highly personal to me?
*** Write down your good qualities. What can you offer to a potential lover? What is attractive about you? Don’t be shy!
Finally, before you cast your love spell, ask yourself – am I open minded? Am I casting this spell from the right mental “place”? Or am I casting it to specifically capture a specific person I have a huge crush on? (Note: You cannot force anyone else to love you, this is against magical laws. You can however attract a lover who has qualities similar to your crush, or you can encourage a person to love you if they are half minded to already ie if your crush has the potential to like you back and be happy with you.)
Pay attention to these tips and you will soon be casting love spells that really work! You’ll be loved up before you know it...
